Today’s blog comes in sections. I will attempt to write in a
format so that my point makes sense. Actually, that’s the way I’m supposed to
write every time. Anyway…
BACKSTORY:
I have 5 kids…three boys (who came first) and two girls (on
the end). I try to be my kids’ hero.
With my boys, I have wrestled, played football, baseball,
hacky sack and anything else to convey to my sons that their Dad is Mr. Macho,
brave and strong. I have matched wits and consistently won. I have gone
toe-to-toe with them and proved that my strong will endurance is greater than
theirs.
My girls are different. My guess is… you already knew
that. My daughters are 15 and 11. I am
not sure if they are keeping me young or making me old. My oldest daughter,
Emmali (pronounced “Emma”-“Lee”) is trying her hand at writing. I would like to
think I have inspired her. I don’t dare ask.
The baby is still the baby and I’m keeping her that way
until she’s 30!
STORY:
My daughter, Emmali, has gotten involved writing stories
about comic book superheroes. She publishes her work in a blog-o-sphere where
any superhero can meet up with any superhero at any place or time. The story is
only limited to the writer’s imagination. I think she’s pretty good. I’m a
little jealous. She has more readers than I do. I’ll give her a plug here. The
name of the blog site is “Fan Fiction”. There, now she can add my 100 readers
to her 2000. Did that sound petulant?
She really gets into her stories. Sometimes…a lot of the
time, it dominates our conversation. She has quite the creative thinking
process. I have been able to ascertain that my daughter’s favorite character to
write about is Batman. I hear about Batman a lot. I hear Batman this and Batman
that. I hear about Batman and Robin…Batman and Nightwing…Batman and
Superman…Batman and Joker. She is quite
the aficionado. If I make a wrong or uneducated comment about Batman she is
quick and confident enough to let me know. It doesn’t take an “Einstein” to
know that writers write about what we’re passionate about!
So, one day, while Emmali was spewing her “Fan Fiction”
ideas to the whole family, she divulged an interesting piece of information.
She said, and I quote, “When I write my Batman character I base it on
Dad.”…………I had to let that sink in…. I think I might be my daughter’s hero. My
chest swelled with pride…until I realized that I don’t have all those cool
gadgets. The next thought to hit me was, “Isn’t Bruce Wayne a
multi-gazillionaire?” I probably shouldn’t complicate the situation with
over-thinking and just be glad she didn’t say Superman!
Now, know this: At any regular moment, when nothing is
happening and all is well in the world, I may be known as Pastor Eric, Eric,
Dad, Ref or just “Hey You”. But at night, when the chips are down and things
are going wrong….I’m BATMAN!
Actually, I’m in bed sleeping. But when my daughter thinks
of Batman, she thinks of ME!